The Critical Flaws in Women’s Self-Defence Training

by | Jan 8, 2025 | Self-defence

Flaws in women's self-defence training

Why This Matters: The Reality of Violence

In the UK alone, over 1.1 million sexual assaults and 1.5 million violent assaults were reported last year. That’s why self-defence isn’t just an option—it’s essential.

In self-defence, it’s vital that training provides practical, effective, and actionable skills. Regrettably, much of what is being taught under the banner of “women’s self-defence” is not only ineffective but could put women at a disadvantage. Let’s delve into the critical flaws in many self-defence programmes today.

Unworkable self-defence techniques

The Hollywood Takedown: When Fantasy Meets Reality

Techniques like the shoulder lock, armbar, or wrist twist are legitimate—in theory. However, their success hinges on a perfect storm of factors:

Realistic Practice: Have you trained these moves in high-stress, chaotic scenarios that mirror real-life attacks?

Body Mechanics: Can you consistently leverage your body weight and precision to execute these techniques effectively?

Your Attacker’s State: Are they bigger, stronger, or under the influence of adrenaline, alcohol, or drugs?

Hollywood and viral TikTok videos glamorize these techniques, but the truth is stark: they require advanced skills to work under pressure. 

In the chaos of fear and violence, complexity is not your friend.

The Simplicity That Saves: Whack Them and Run

Forget the flashy moves. The most effective approach? Hit hard, hit smart, and escape.

By learning how to:

  • Generate power using proper footwork and body mechanics,
  • Target critical areas like the throat or carotid artery, and
  • Engage a survival mindset where hesitation doesn’t exist,
  • Give yourself a real chance to end the threat and escape safely. 

Sometimes, the simplest solutions are the most effective—and the most overlooked.

Misplaced Priorities: The Power Fallacy

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Palm strikes to the face might sound good in theory, but without proper technique, they lack stopping power. Weak, poorly executed strikes won’t neutralise a threat—they’ll provoke it.

Effective striking requires:

  • Body Weight Engagement: Power comes from your entire body, not just your arms.
  • Precision: Aim for vital targets, not the jaw or cheekbone.
  • Footwork: Stability and positioning amplify power.
  • The goal isn’t just distraction—it’s disabling your attacker long enough for you to escape.

The Cost of Unrealistic Scenarios

Too many programmes waste time on irrelevant scenarios like underarm bear hugs or long-range chokes. Real attackers grab you close, overpowering you with strength. Training should focus on the most probable threats you’ll face—not dramatised nonsense.

Time spent on impractical techniques is time lost on learning life-saving skills. Every second counts.

Self defence training and unrealistic scenarios
The Danger of Compliant partners

Training with someone who lets you “win” creates a false sense of security. Real-life attacks are chaotic, fast, and relentless. Effective self-defence training must simulate unpredictability to prepare you for the shock and intensity of a real encounter.

Start Smart: Mu-shin Self-defence

Our Simplified and Instinctive Response System (SIRS) focuses on what works:

✅ Realistic Scenarios: Train for the threats you’re most likely to face.

✅ Simplified Techniques: Skills anyone can learn, regardless of size or strength.

✅ Bite-Sized Lessons: Practical training that fits into your busy life.

Start your journey for just £4.99 with our first module and unlock your inner Warrior in just 5 days.

You’ll learn the techniques that matter most—empowering you to stay safe and gain the confidence that comes with being ready for anything.

Take your first step today. Your future self will thank you.

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